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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

14.06.2025 12:08

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

I could never make a relationship work though!

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Who then, do I blame.?

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

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As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

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I never cut or harmed myself..

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

What is one thing you've learned from life?

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

One cannot live in the past .

Is it possible for people who claim to be genuine and honest to actually not be? If so, why do they behave this way?

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

We all went to grammer schools

Why do narcissists keep calling on the phone after years of separation?

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

But, we were locked up after school.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

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Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

What did i know ?

Can a barracuda kill a human?

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

I told my 13-year-old daughter that she should never start a fight, but has my permission to end it. She got suspended for ending a fight that some other girl picked with her by hitting her then retreating. How do I handle the school’s response?

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

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I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

When she asked me how she looked .

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I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

She found it foreign!.

My life is so biszare .

How would you define love?

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

Would you let your partner cheat on you every now and again?

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

Why did i forgive my father ?

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

As i do to all so called friends.?

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

It was going to be , some day.

I was scared of men, in general

So whats the point in blame.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

I will be 64.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

I think the readers, may guess!

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

Comes on , in middle age.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

She wouldn,t have been !

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

I was 9 years of age.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

Im still living with it.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

But ive been too sick for many years..

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

I have no regrets .

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

I had hoped to write a book about this .

Ive learnt so much.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

She loved him until the end.

This is soul school!.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

I waited trembling.

He knew the spot.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

Would this be the day?

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

And who doesn’t know suffering?

She married twice! .

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

Was to survive, this bastard.

I couldn’t, believe it.

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

But it wasn’t much.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

Im dying but, im not bitter.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

Especially a lifetime of it.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

I was seconnd youngest,

My family never makes their pension either.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

They are buried together, in the same grave..

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

He resisted the act ,that day.

I don,t even have a pension.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

So, i spoilt her more .

He was dying to do it , i knew.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

And i lived it daily.

We were not on the streets..

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

Where the ultimate outsiders.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

I said to her

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

I write beautiful poetry .

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

She was in good health!

Put me off passion for life!!

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

This is how, and why children get BPD.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

(And it was in our own minds.)

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

I was very sick at this time too.

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

All the time i was locked up.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !